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Morning Coffee Quotes & Notes #19

Quote Of The Day

When we put expectations or ideals on how our lives "should" go, when it doesn't go as planned; we stress out! ...Or at least I do! ha! *shrugs*

About the Quote.

This quote spoke to me in ways unimaginable. As Oprah would say, I had an 'aha moment!' And I did. I immediately resonated with it. I even mumbled ummmmmhmmmm. lol. There are times when I would much rather be on a beach at a exclusive resort drinking Pina Coladas. And I don't like Pina Coladas! But the idea of it sounds so much better than where I'm at. I can't get caught up in a fantasy while living in my reality. I have to face my reality. My reality is doing what I need to do; to make those dreams happen. It's stressful, though. You have to put in a lot of work to make those dreams happen.

The thing about stress and expectations is how easy it is for me to look at someone else's journey. If I see someone, on social media, living a lifestyle I want--I'm secretly jealous. Not in a "Marsha, Marsha, Marsha" type of way but in a 'if I keep looking at her photos, I'll turn a self-loathing stan!' lol.. And that's not who I am! So, I'm not sure if social media does more harm than good??? There's something odd about social media. You're connecting with people but in a shallow way. There's a brag-ga-docious vibe about it, that slightly irks me. It's a 'Look At What I'm Doing' feel to it. I might be over-thinking it....or not. But Is social media a little narcissistic? *shrugs*

Social Media

I have taken a tiny break from Instagram. I will resume, soon. As I said before, I found myself caught up in other people's lifestyle and I forgot about my own well-being. Crazy! So I decided to dial back and focus on what matters to me. Which is My Own Life. ha! And my blogs!

Have a Good Week, Marshaaaaaa! lol

PS: Yes, I definitely quoted The Brady Bunch! Your Welcome! And Stan means: Stalker-Fan

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